How To Survive The Holidays

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How To Survive The Holidays

How To Survive The Holidays

HOW TO SURVIVE THE HOLIDAYS 

It’s that time of year again.-the Holidays. Family, food, fun and cheer. But this year is different. This year you may be grieving and/or facing a new reality with your divorce. The usual expectations of the holidays from organizing complicated get together’s to cooking elaborate feasts may seem very intimidating. It doesn’t have to be though. Here are 4 easy steps to follow to ensure you enjoy the holiday season with loved ones and maybe get some meaning and inspiration from them as well.

 

Put Things In Perspective

Put Things In Perspective

  1. Put Things In Perspective Why do we have the holidays? What are we celebrating? Do the holidays-whether it’s Thanksgiving, Christmas, Hanukkah or Kwanzaa hold any special meaning for you? Do you remember celebrating them in your childhood in a certain way? Are they a tie to your past and where you come from? Do you want to pass any of the rituals to your children? Putting the holidays in perspective and not worrying about the superficial like gift giving and fancy feasts may help you gain a better foothold on why we have these occasions in the first place.
Lower Expectations During The Holidays

Lower Expectations During The Holidays

2. Lower Expectations During The Holidays Slow down! You don’t have to move too fast. Take a breath and realize you can’t be everything to everybody. Think of yourself and what you need now. Don’t commit to too much at this time. Pacing yourself during the holidays is key to a healthy season. Only do what feels good. You may be going through a lot so don’t put too much pressure on yourself.

 

Be Choosy With Your Holiday Events

Be Choosy With Your Holiday Events

3. Be Choosy With Your Holiday Events Many holidays get together’s can zap your energy.  Family and friends are beautiful but it can be tiring  and not to mention stressful to be around lots of people for an extended period of time.  Perhaps you would just rather curl up with a favorite book by the fireplace. Recognize that it may be better for you at this time to not attend every holiday gathering. Take the time to be alone or with a close few that you are truly comfortable with.

 

Make A Prioritized Plan

Make A Prioritized Plan

4. Make A Prioritized Plan What’s important to you this holiday season? What do you want to do? Make a list and stick with it. You will find that if you do what is most important to you the holidays won’t be that stressful because you are doing what is meaningful for you with the people that you want to be surrounded by.

To find out more about surviving the holidays please contact divorceharmony.com.

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